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Post by Merina on Dec 5, 2005 17:31:43 GMT -5
[shadow=red,left,300]So I am mad at my parents...it's been this way for 3 weeks now..oh what to do what to do..and So I am trying my best to stay away lol [/shadow]
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Post by Nihonin on Dec 7, 2005 20:52:37 GMT -5
But what are you mad at your parents about? Keep in mind that sometimes parents do things in your best interest even though you may not think so. I thought my parents sucked miserably when I was growing up. Now that I'm a little older I still think they suck but for totally different reasons! LOL
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Post by Merina on Dec 7, 2005 23:46:51 GMT -5
well Cuz my bf, elderfool got a job in deadwood and my parents think he works at a Casino, But he works at a hotel...and now they wont let us date until he isnt working there...which might not happen for a couple more months...depens when the job he wants opens back up.
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Post by Nihonin on Dec 8, 2005 8:27:48 GMT -5
Well, I would suggest you speak to your parents about it. Tell them how you feel and explain what your BF job really is. Maybe they'll change their minds. Probably with limitations but it'd be better than nothing would be my guess.
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Post by Merina on Dec 8, 2005 13:37:07 GMT -5
I've tryed...they still would listin..and his mom has tryed and his sister has tryed...stubern parents  |
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Post by Nihonin on Dec 8, 2005 20:27:51 GMT -5
Well if he means that much to you, keep trying. That is of course he is way older than you and your parents see things that you do not.
Your parents do have your best interest at heart.
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Post by Merina on Dec 9, 2005 14:09:46 GMT -5
he is older then me...just by 6 years..hehe and I shall keep trying.
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Post by Nihonin on Dec 11, 2005 8:09:45 GMT -5
6 yrs isn't bad at some point in life. But ifyou are say 13 and he's 19, that is a problem. But if you are 19 and he's 25 not a problem. Just keep trying to walk the fine line of keeping your parents happy while finding happiness.
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Post by Merina on Dec 11, 2005 19:39:40 GMT -5
umm...I'm 16 and he's 22...though I'll be 17 in july...not too long aways
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Post by Nihonin on Dec 11, 2005 22:03:17 GMT -5
I see why they are up in arms about it. Give it a while. Once you are 17 things may change a bit. But I wouldn't put too much stock in it. I think your paren'ts are stuck on the age thing more than anything else.
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